the finest selection of advanced romance quotes

Candlelight &
Roses for the Heart

Discoveries, Summaries & Strategies of Advanced Romance

by  Dave Davidson
with Becca Lynn

galley rough draft version 1997 © Thinkwow.com

Love

is not an emptiness

longing to be filled-

it is a fullness pressing

to be released.

 

J. Kennedy Shultz

 

 

A longing fulfilled is a tree of life.

 

Proverbs 13:12

You do, of course

have a picnic basket

(full of food) in your car trunk

at all times, don’t you ?!

 

Gregory J.P. Godek

 

If you be loved, be worthy of love.

 

Ovid

At first, romance

seems like a fairy tale,

then it becomes a dream.

Finally romance is fiction

or a real life reality.

 

Dave Davidson

 

Love is an irresistible

desire to be irresistibly desired.

 

Robert Frost

 

The fragrance always stays in the hand that gives the rose.

Hada Bejar

 

 

A man doesn’t dream about a woman

because he thinks her "mysterious";

he decides that she is "mysterious"

to justify his dreaming about her.

 

Henri De Montherlant

 

As water reflects a face,

so a man’s heart reflects the man.

 

Proverbs 27:19

 

Romance is merely a mirror...

the very reflection

and expression of affection;

how the heart feels already.

 

Dave Davidson

Love is patient,

love is kind. It does not envy,

it does not boast, it is not proud.

 

1 Corinthians 13:4

 

 

There is only one kind of love, but there

are a thousand different imitations of it.

 

La Rochefoucauld

Hang on

to your dreams,

but learn to let them go

when dreams hang on

and drag you down.

 

Becca Lynn

 

 

We are shaped

and fashioned by

what we love.

 

Goethe

 

There is no

remedy for love

but to love more.

 

Henry Thoreau

 

They that love beyond the

world cannot be separated by it.

Death cannot kill what never dies...

 

William Penn

 

For love is as strong as death,

its jealousy unyielding as the grave.

It burns like blazing fire

like a mighty flame.

 

Songs Of Songs 8:6

Writing any account of

heart moods and attitudes

in love letters and poetry

is the paper work

perk of love.

 

Dave Davidson

When my days are wrinkled,

time running short, never want to say,

"What have I done?" So I transport my life,

view it from the grave, each minute

spent is one we cannot save.

 

Matt Malyon

 

 

 

Many waters

cannot quench love;

rivers cannot wash it away.

 

Songs Of Songs 8:7

 

 

Love is that condition in which

the happiness of another person is

essential to your own joy.

 

George Eliot

 

 

Romance is

an art of the heart,

not a science; though

experimenting

is recommended.

 

Dave Davidson

 

 

 

Love consists in desiring

to give what is our own to another and feeling his

delight as our own.

 

Robert A. Heinlein

 

 

 

Lovey dovey allow,

but hanky panky only with a vow.

 

Cyrano De Words-u-lac

 

 

When God says "No," it means

He wants to protect, preserve and prepare us

for something better. It means a more fulfilling "Yes," is waiting right around the corner.

 

Dave Davidson

An honest answer

is like a kiss on the lips.

 

Proverbs 24:26

 

 

I do not want to make reasons

for you to stay, only reasons

for you to return.

 

Jonivan

Love is not

just stopping

to smell sweet roses...

its pausing to pick, prune

and put them in a vase.

 

Dave Davidson

 

True love

is like ghosts, which

everyone talks about

and few have seen.

 

La Rochefoucauld

 

 

A heart flirting asks love’s questions

without demanding instant tangible answers.

It goes out on a limb just enough to hang there and

see the horizon without snapping the branch.

Flirting can encourage and can inspire,

but best magic of this romantic dynamic;

flirting can definitely attract.

 

Dave Davidson

 

 

 

Give me purity to be worthy

the good in her, and grant her

patience to reach the good in me.

 

George Meredith

 

 

Above all else, guard your heart,

for it is the wellspring of life.

 

Proverbs 4:23

 

 

A heart attracted is semi-desperate,

multi-creative and mildly wild to the touch.

Attraction struggles to drive intention in a journey of priorities.

Sincere love balances and becomes an ally with attraction to discourage distraction and to fulfill love’s potential.

Attraction serves it’s purpose and is called

upon anytime a heart in love

needs recusitation.

 

Dave Davidson

 

 

 

All brave, strong men

were once cowards who

just quit not asking.

 

Dave Davidson

 

Be men of courage; be strong.

 

1 Corinthians 13:13

 

Often times a sweetness we hold

for someone is perpetuated by how they

encourage us, how they enable us to feel

and how they spur us on to love them.

 

Dave Davidson

 

We love in another’s soul whatever of

ourselves we can deposit in it:

the greater the deposit

the greater the love.

 

Irving Layton

Love

sought is good,

but given unsought

is better.

 

William Shakespeare

 

Falling in love consists

merely in uncorking the imagination

and bottling the common-sense.

 

Helen Rowland

 

Even the most mundane activities in life

become extremely interesting when

you’re getting to know someone.

 

Dave Davidson

 

 

Tides may come and go,

birds may return for spring,

but the written proof of love’s memories carries one on

to tomorrow’s hopes.

 

Dave Davidson

Sincere romantic

gestures encompass

no ulterior motive other

than the declaration

and narration

of true love.

Dave Davidson

Love must

be sincere

Romans 12:9

A sharing heart embraces

and cherishes nature’s offerings as if it

were made for only two in full appreciation.

A lake shore holds new meaning, a flower

emits enlightening fresh scents and

the moon seems to shine just

for a selfish romantic

conversation piece.

 

Becca Lynn

 

 

 

The right love song

performed at the right time,

whether weak will or strong,

can stir the heart like a blender

or crash it like a dented fender.

 

Dave Davidson

 

Hope deferred makes the heart sick.

 

Proverbs 13:12

Enchantment,

true blue enchantment,

takes love into a mystical woods,

where colors are exaggerated,

where imagination runs wild,

yet animals are tame.

 

Becca Lynn

 

Charm

can be an alarm

which sounds when

love starts sinking in.

 

Dave Davidson

 

Charm is deceptive, beauty is fleeting...

 

Proverbs 31:10

Love

is always revolutionary.

 

Andrei Voznesensky

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

How do I love thee?

Let me count the ways.

 

Elizabeth Barrett Browning

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

It is not because things are

difficult that we do not dare;

it is because we do not dare

that things are difficult.

 

Seneca

 

 

 

 

Few things in life compare to lying on one's back,

the boards of a hard pier distinguishing the spine,

with the night sky overhead flaunting her grandeur.

A shooting star falls,

and there is a rush inside, for it will never occur again,

and you were witness to her splendid soar. Suddenly you

look around, and realize, no one else is present to share this

twinkling of nature. How much better at that moment

of momentous descent, to reach out and hold

a hand, words not needed, not expected.

 

Becca Lynn

There’s more love to live

than once treasured.

 

There’s more love to give

than once measured.

 

There’s always more room

where love begins to bloom.

 

Dave Davidson

 

Only when a heart is

willing to be broken can

two hearts

join in a journey of true love.

 

Dave Davidson

 

 

The meeting of two personalities

is like the contact of two chemical substances:

if there is any reaction both are transformed.

 

Carl G. Jung

 

Kissing is like chemistry class without

the safety mask… mixing and comparing

elements, adjusting rising heat levels

while discovering compatabilites.

 

Dave Davidson

Love is in the poetry, the music, the flowers,

the perfume, the dancing, the moonlight sky,

the slow burning fire,

the shimmering dresses, the smoothest of men,

the eye batting beauty, the ocean by morning,

the tender kisses at night, the long flowing tendrils,

the way he says my name, the mountains in winter,

the sunset's water reflection. All these possibilities

feed your romantic spirit and keep it alive.

 

Becca Lynn

Love...is not rude,

it is not self seeking,

it is not easily angered,

it keeps no record of wrongs.

 

1 Corinthians 13:5

You can give without loving,

but you can never love

without giving.

 

Unknown

It's the heart

of a determined romantic

that perseveres long enough to view

and cherish a simple smile returned,

knowing full well that a smile

may be all they ever receive.

 

Dave Davidson

 

 

Flowers

have yet to go

out of style.

 

Becca Lynn

Every castle

has a dungeon,

every pool has a drain,

every heart can be broken,

for no heart remains

the same.

 

Dave Davidson

If passion drives,

let reason hold the reins.

 

Benjamin Franklin

 

All passions exaggerate:

it is because they do that

they are passions.

 

Nicholas Chamfort

 

Supreme balance is required

when aiming your passions towards

another’s heart. It is delicately dangerous,

like walking a tightrope over Niagara Falls.

 

Dave Davidson

 

A man in passion rides a horse

that runs away with him.

 

C.H. Spurgeon

Yes,

timing is everything

for the initiation

of affection.

 

Dave Davidson

 

...passionate words of love

delivered by whisper

to anxious ears, have yet to

lose their magical affect.

 

Becca Lynn

 

Affection

is a sweet confection

attractive to the taste.

 

Affection

is an subtle inspection,

an embrace at the waist.

 

Dave Davidson

Her smile has been my lyric, her understanding the rhythm of the stanza.

She has been the spring where from I have drawn the words. She is the poem of my life.

 

Oliver Wendell Holmes

 

As soon as you cannot keep anything

from a woman you love her.

 

Paul Geraldy

Cherishing

a woman means

spinning her around

the kitchen and telling

her how incredible she is.

 

Becca Lynn

We cage the birds

with the biggest wings.

 

Matt Malyon

 

 

 

The ability of effectively expressing

and understanding emotions rivals

threading a needle in the dark.

 

Dave Davidson

 

A heart flustered

is constantly on edge,

battling faith and fate

in a cruel duel, seeking

love's final victory.

 

Dave Davidson

A kiss is

a contact,

a conviction,

a connection.

Dave Davidson

When cherished,

one undoubtedly feels beautiful.

Laughter escapes.

Play multiplies. The heart becomes light

as arms yearn to hold the deliverer of

this newfound love. Cherishing

is returned, exchanged.

 

Becca Lynn

 

If you can find somewhere

to store this flame,

let this love remain.

Call off the fire department

say it’s just false alarms,

let this love find your arms.

Dave Davidson

 

 

 

 

To cheat oneself out of love

is the most terrible deception;

it is an eternal loss for which

there is no reparation, either

in time or in eternity.

 

Soren Kierkegaard

 

 

 

I love you without

knowing how, or when, or from

where. I love you straightforwardly,

without complexities or pride; so

I love you

because I know no other way...

 

Pablo Neruda

 

Love is something like the clouds

that were in the sky before the sun came out.

You cannot touch the clouds,

you know; but you feel the rain and know how glad

the flowers and the thirsty earth are to have it after

a hot day. You cannot touch love either; but you

feel the sweetness that it pours into everything.

 

Annie Sullivan

 

 

 

Romance is a mood, an attitude;

a necessary food for the heart in love.

 

Dave Davidson

 

 

 

A lady’s imagination is very rapid; it jumps from admiration to love, from love to matrimony in a moment.

 

Jane Austen

 

 

Yet love

consumes me,

for what bounds

are there to love?

 

Virgil

 

 

 

 

 

Banish that fear;

my flame can never waste,

For love sincere refines

upon the taste.

 

Robert Browning

 

 

 

 

 

O tell her,

brief is life

but love is long.

 

Alfred Tennyson

 

 

 

 

An admirer's appreciation grows

and finds comfort just as slippers

and a mug of hot chocolate become a pleasant appeasement

after a long stance of bitter winter weather

while chopping wood outdoors.

 

Becca Lynn

 

 

 

Love is

of all the passions

the strongest, for it attacks simultaneously the head,

the heart and the senses.

 

Voltaire

 

 

 

But to see her was to love her,

love but her and love for ever.

 

Robert Burns

 

 

The type of human being we prefer

reveals the contours of our heart.

 

Ortega Y Gasset

 

 

Adoration

grows when a person's internal

essence shines. In fact, extreme beauty may even be considered a handicap,

for it keeps others at bay, intimidated

to know the real you inside.

 

Becca Lynn

 

I used to check off

my list to see what I missed,

...looking for hearts off a grocery list.

I’m not too sure what love is anymore.

 

Matt Malyon

 

 

One doesn’t fall in love; one grows into

love, and love grows in him.

 

Karl Menniger

 

 

 

Love is a great beautifier

 

Louisa May Alcott

 

In a blush, love finds a barrier.

 

Virgil

 

 

Every eye forms its own beauty

 

Charles G. Harper

 

 

I love you for the

mask you don’t wear.

 

J. Austin

 

 

Let us not love with words or tongue

but with actions and in truth.

 

1 John 3:18

 

 

Advanced romance eludes

to extravagant exaggeration,

which in some sense includes

the play of polite persuasion.

 

Dave Davidson

 

A gentle answer turns away wrath.

 

Proverbs 15:1

...where personality glows

brighter than any beautiful look,

where laughter warms another

more than any physical approach.

It is here where adoration flourishes,

one finds true refreshment in another.

Becca Lynn

 

Beauty

is the gift of God.

 

Aristotle

 

 

 

 

 

If love

will be true,

half is up to you.

 

Dave Davidson

 

 

 

...our dream life

has great potential,

it can heal the wounded,

bring up the wonderful past,

and take us into a future

world of our choosing.

 

Becca Lynn

 

 

 

Love without passion

is an ocean without waves,

with depth of water

lacking thirst which craves.

 

Love without passion

is a walk on a beautiful beach,

a blanket in the sand

that seems out of reach.

 

Dave Davidson

Love does not delight

in evil but rejoices in truth.

It always protects, always trusts,

always hopes, always perseveres.

 

1 Corinthians 13:6

 

Ultimately, the bond of all companionship,

whether in marriage or friendship,

is conversation.

 

Oscar Wilde

To be in love

is the dearest wish,

the most welcoming dream

and brightest aspiration

a heart can hope for.

 

Becca Lynn

 

 

 

 

All love is sweet, given or returned.

They who inspire it are fortunate,

but those who feel it most

are happier still.

 

Percy Shelly

 

 

 

 

Love is a

butterfly

which, when pursued

is just beyond your grasp,

but if you will sit down quietly,

it may alight upon you.

 

Nathaniel Hawthorne

Love

unexpressed

is a love that

is less...

 

Dave Davidson

What is a kiss?

The sure, sweet cement,

glue and lime of love.

 

Robert Herrick

 

 

Your lips are like a scarlet ribbon;

your mouth is lovely.

 

Songs of Songs 4:3

Love is kindest,

and hath most strength,

The kisses are most sweet,

When it’s enjoyed in heat of strength,

Where like affections meet.

Patrick Hannay

 

I have never known love.

But if it is like two invisible lines stretching from my spirit

to your spirit, then I am in love.

 

Helen Keller

 

When you can rest

in the arms of who you love,

when you can take a walk in the

woods and words are not necessary,

when you look at each other at a party

and know what the other is thinking,

a heart content has arrived.

 

Becca Lynn

 

Honor

one another

above yourselves.

 

Romans 12:10

 

 

The heart has its reasons

which reason knows

nothing of.

 

Blaise Pascal

 

 

What’s

the earth

with all its art,

verse, music worth-

compared with love,

found, gained and kept.

 

Robert Browning

 

And now these three remain: faith, hope and love.

But the greatest of these is love.

 

1 Corinthians 13:13 a

 

Love is for fools

wise enough to

take a chance.

 

Amy Grant, Wayne Kirpatrick & Michael W. Smith

from the song, "Love Can Do" by

 

 

Its always rough

waiting to make your move

until everything seems smooth.

 

Dave Davidson

 

Life takes on new meaning,

a new outlook. When a heart embraces

romance, one jumps out of bed in the

morning; slumber ceases to exist.

 

Becca Lynn

The supreme

happiness of life is the

conviction

that we are loved.

 

Victor Hugo

 

 

 

 

 

 

The moment the mind interferes

with love, or the will fixes on it, or the personality assumes of it as an attribute,

or the ego takes possession of it,

It is not love any more,

it’s just a mess.

 

D.H. Lawrence

 

 

 

 

Romantic love

is an effort of initiative

in a great discovery

of gifts to give.

 

Dave Davidson

 

 

 

 

Give all to love,

Obey thy heart.

 

Ralph Waldo Emerson

 

 

 

Do everything in love.

 

1 Corinthians 16:14

 

Intimate listening

is undivided attention

without the need

to mention.

 

Dave Davidson

 

The music that inspires the souls of lovers exists within themselves and the private universe they occupy... The courage to hear that music and to honor it is one of the prerequisites of romantic love.

 

Nathaniel Branden

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Never ever miss

a good bye kiss.

 

Cyrano De Words-u-lac

 

 

 

 

 

We are each of us

angels with only one wing.

And we can only fly

embracing each other.

 

Luciano de Crescenzo

 

 

 

 

 

Love is never genuine if forced,

so one must commit the other's

response to the power of time,

the power of prayer and patience.

 

Becca Lynn

 

The dream

is in the journey,

it’s been there

all along.

 

Robert Rottet

 

 

 

Is not this the

true romantic feeling-

not to desire to escape life,

but to prevent life from

escaping you?

 

Thomas Wolfe

The

beauty

of romance

is limitless.

 

Becca Lynn

...there are myths

which displace truth

and myths which give

wings to truth.

 

William Ernest Hocking

 

 

 

 

 

 

A kiss is a magic trick

where two people know the method,

but still act amused with the result.

 

Dave Davidson

 

A kiss can be a comma, a question mark,

or an exclamation point.

 

Mistinguett

 

 

 

Enhance

the chance

of romance

with a dance.

Cyrano De Words-u-lac

 

 

Where’s your heart

when love’s in reach,

when parrots speak soft lies,

when doves on the beach

are peace in disguise.

 

Dave Davidson

 

 

 

Kissing

is a physical debut

which stars the very part

of the body that speaks

words of love.

 

Dave Davidson

Love is a capricious creature

which desires everything and can be

contented with almost nothing.

 

Madeline De Scudery

 

The greatest discovery of any generation

is that human beings can alter their lives

by altering their attitudes of mind.

 

Albert Schweitzer

 

 

Like pastels to a flower,

the scent of passionate perfume

emits an effervescent power

when love begins to bloom.

 

Dave Davidson

 

 

Love is an attempt

to change a piece of the

dream-world into reality.

 

Theodore Roethke

 

Love is not love until

love’s vulnerable.

 

Theodore Roethke

 

 

 

This is when

the refining begins

melting motives into purity.

When I love without reward

without connection, without

regard for my affections-

 

Dave Davidson

 

 

Love is most nearly itself

when here and now cease to matter.

 

T.S. Eliot

 

Real love is a pilgrimage.

It happens when there is no strategy,

but it is very rare because most

people are strategists.

 

Anita Brookner

 

In the soul of each heart

a reservoir of love resides,

a river ready to spring forward,

a waterfall ready to descend...

to where love abides.

 

Dave Davidson

 

The need to surrender is one of the

great paradoxes of love. Surrender may seem

like giving up. Or giving in. But in reality we

are strengthened when we actively choose to make ourselves vulnerable. We are empowered by sharing our deepest self with another person, offering

him or her our heart, our soul our life.

 

Ellen Sue Stern

 

 

 

Love feels no burden,

thinks nothing of trouble,

attempts what is above it’s

strength, pleads no excuse

of impossibility...

 

Thomas A Kempis

 

 

I wonder why love is so often equated with joy

when it is everything as well. Devastation, balm,

obsession, granting and receiving excessive value,

and losing it again. It is recognition, often of what

you are not but might be. It sears and it heals.

It is beyond pity and above law.

It can seem like the truth.

 

Florida Scott Maxwell

 

 

Of all forms of caution,

caution in love is perhaps

the most fatal to true happiness.

 

Bertland Russel

 

 

While we ponder when to

begin it becomes too late.

 

Quintilian

 

God can’t give us happiness and peace

apart from Himself, because it is not there.

There is no such thing.

 

C.S. Lewis

 

There are three principal postures of love:

it gives with joy, receives with appreciation,

and rebukes with humility and hope.

 

Albert M. Wells, Jr.

 

 

We would often be sorry

if our wishes were gratified.

 

Aesop

 

Blessed is the influence of one true,

loving human soul on another.

 

George Elliot

 

The manner of giving

is worth more than the gift.

 

Pierre Corneille

 

 

There is nothing like a dream

to create the future.

 

Victor Hugo

 

 

 

God will only mend

a broken heart when He

is given all the pieces.

 

 

 

 

There are souls in this world which

have the gift of finding joy everywhere

and of leaving it behind them when they go.

 

Faber

 

 

It is always good to know, if only being in passing,

a charming human being; it refreshes our lives

like flowers and woods and clear brooks.

 

George Eliot

 

Passion,

though a bad regulator,

is a powerful spring.

 

Ralph Waldo Emmerson

 

 

Nothing happens

unless first a dream.

 

Carl Sandburg

 

 

 

The pursuit of truth and beauty is a sphere

of activity in which we are permitted to

remain children all our lives.

 

Albert Einstein

 

 

Love is the strange bewilderment

which overtakes one person on account of another person.

 

James Thurber & E.B. White,

 

 

Sensual pleasures passes and

vanishes in the twinkling of an eye, but the

friendship between us, the mutual confidence,

the delights of the heart,

the enchantment of the soul, these things do

not perish and can never be destroyed.

I shall love you until I die.

 

Voltaire

 

To be in love is

merely to be in a state of

perceptual

anesthesia.

 

H.L. Mencken

 

Putting your arms

around the one you love

is a continuous compliment.

 

Dave Davidson

 

 

The sound of a kiss is not so

loud as that of a cannon, but it’s

echo lasts a great deal longer.

 

Oliver Wendell Holmes

Love is a canvas

furnished by nature and

embroidered by imagination.

 

Voltaire

 

 

Romance cannot be put into quantity

production--the moment love becomes

casual, it becomes commonplace.

 

Frederick Lewis Allen

 

Love is a

delightful day's journey.

At the farther end kiss your

companion and say farewell.

 

Ambrose Bierce,

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

When you realize you want

to spend the rest of your life

with somebody, you want

the rest of your life

to start as soon as possible.

 

Billy Crystal -When Harry Met Sally

 

 

The more I think about it,

the more I realize there is nothing

more artistic than to love others.

 

Vincent Van Gogh

 

 

To love and win is the best thing.

To love and lose, the next best.

 

William M. Thackeray

 

 

At the touch of love

everyone becomes a poet.

 

Plato

 

 

The course of true love

never did run smooth.

 

Shakespeare

 

 

 

Three grand essentials to happiness

in this life are something to

do, something to love, and

something to hope for.

 

Addison

 

 

 

In dreams and in love

there are no impossibilities.

 

Janos Arany

 

 

Romance has been elegantly defined

as the offspring of fiction and love.

 

Benjamin Disraeli

 

 

 

 

Romance, like a ghost,

eludes touching. It always is

where you were, not where you are.

 

Curtis

 

 

A mixture of admiration and pity is one

of the surest recipes for affection.

 

Andre Maurois

 

 

 

We are all together alone

meeting in a mutual solitude;

We share a common home,

with love constantly pursued.

 

Dave Davidson

 

 

 

You’re the cellist

and I, a delicate instrument.

You melodically strike in me

calm chords of contentment.

 

Dave Davidson

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The glory of the day was in her face,

The beauty of the night was in her eyes.

 

James Weldon Johnson

 

 

 

Familiar acts are beautiful through love.

 

Percy Bysshe Shelley

 

 

 

 

 

 

Wrapped around your arms…

I’m surrounded by your endless charms,

engulfed and overwhelmed

with the chemistry of you and me,

me and you intimately.

 

Dave Davidson

 

 

Love is a mystery which,

when solved, evaporates.

 

Ned Noren

 

 

Love requires boldness,

and spoils bashfulness.

 

Thomas Fuller

 

Reaching out

creates space,

leaves room,

opens hearts

for someone,

some fine day

to then reach in.

 

Dave Davidson

 

 

 

Tarnished, varnished my eyes

are in an air brushed harness.

It affects how we see each other...

False seed, imagery, corrupting my philosophy, creates a ladder no one can climb... I fight the battle for my mind.

 

Matt Malyon

 

 

 

You will find, as you look

back upon your life, that the

moments that stand

out are the moments when you

have done things for others.

 

Henry Drummond

 

Love is the triumph of

imagination over intellegence.

 

H.L. Mencken

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Love works miracles every day:

such as weakening the strong,

and strengthening the weak;

making fools of the wise,

and wise men of fools;

favouring the passions,

destroying reason,

and, in a word,

turing everything

topsy-turvy.

 

Marguerite De Valois

 

 

 

Romantic love ‘happens’;

it is not brought about; one falls in love.

The person is obsessed with the loved one

and is unable to concentrate on anything else.

The person loses all desire to remain independent, and instead desires to merge and subsume

....into the other.

 

Margaret Horton

 

 

 

Perfect love is rare indeed ...

To be a lover will require that you continually

have the subtlety of the very wise, the flexibility

of the child, the sensitivity of the artist, the

understanding of the philosopher, the

acceptance of the saint, the tolerance

of the scholar, and the fortitude

of the certain.

 

Leo Buscaglia

 

 

 

There is always

something left to love.

And if you ain’t learned that,

you ain’t learned nothing.

 

Lorraine Hansberry

 

 

 

 

 

 

The best and most

beautiful

things in the world cannot

be seen or even touched.

They must be felt with the heart.

 

Hellen Keller

 

 

Love consists in this,

that two solitudes protect and

border and salute each other.

 

Rainer Maria Rilke

 

 

The fate of love

is that it always seems

too little or too much.

 

Amelia Barr

If men knew all

that women think,

they’d be twenty times

more daring.

 

Alphonse Karr

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

We pardon to the extent that we love.

 

La Rochefoucauld

 

 

 

There are times when more honor

is bestowed in the absence of a kiss,

leaving only a trace of hope’s intention

in a gentle hugging nudge.

 

Dave Davidson

 

 

Sometimes the best way to "fix" a sad somber emotion

for someone is to offer a hug and listen and learn and understand… leaving what’s broken broke.

 

Dave Davidson

 

I fear sharing my words and writings with you

because I am a writer.

I fear you may be tempted to think that I am writing to write,

and not writing to capture the pulse of my trembling heart-

the constant beating tidal effect you have on it.

 

Though there are times I write to write;

there are times when I write to live,

to record value in a thought

and virtue in small desires.

 

Dave Davidson

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I stir my dreams

until they burst the seems...

You only get one chance for

a ribbon to thread your years.

 

Matt Malyon

 

 

 

 

Falling in love is

something you forget like pain.

 

Nina Bawden

 

 

The eyes start love; intimacy perfects it.

--PUBLILIUS SYRUS

True love comes quietly, without banners or flashing lights. If you hear bells, get your ears checked.

ERICH SEGAL

 

 

Marriage is like pantyhose. It all depends on what you put into it.

PHYLLIS SCHLAFLY

 

 

 

Every night should have its own menu.

 

Honore De Balzac

 

Don’t count on love

until a strike of a match.

 

Be aware of motives

within a romantic move.

What does the posture,

the appearance, and

attitude prove?

Don’t count kisses

until they catch.

 

Don’t count chickens

until they hatch...

 

 

Shade me

whatever you like,

it won’t change

what I am inside

 

Keoni

 

she is the love

you tried not to hate

she is the beauty you gave away

when her love is still in the air

try not to breathe.

 

Loren Brown

 

We all want to belong

to feel special and pass on the favor...

Romance is the hospitality of warm tea in ornate china teacups with sugar cookies saying, "I’m so glad you came over."

 

Dave Davidson

 

Romantic innocence:

a scenario when someone you adore is absolutely impressed

by you just being you

while you never knew.

 

Dave Davidson

 

Romance

is to a loving relationship,

as falling leaves in autumn

are to the cycle of seasons

and what frosting is to cake...

ambiance and good taste.

 

Dave Davidson

Anticipation

makes love wait,

while romance

serves as bait.

 

Dave Davidson

 

 

You were my strength when I was weak.

You were my voice when I couldn’t speak.

You were my eyes when I couldn’t see.

You saw the best there was in me.

 

Diane Warren

 

I’m the man at the depot

his hand in the air.

I’m the encompassing memory

soothed by a prayer.

I’m the last eye at sunset,

as the ship fades away.

One figure to leave,

one figure to stay.

Matt Malyon

Words have told their tale

and I stand ready to care.

There’s love in the well,

enough to hold and share.

There’s love in the well for you.

 

Dave Davidson

A heart in love is

essential potential,

a resounding pounding

of capacity and capability.

 

Dave Davidson

 

 

the past is history-

former experiences teaching love’s value

 

the past is like a window,
a filter either clouding or clearing perspective
the past is a gentle nudge to keep tomorrow’s dream within edges of the heart

 

Dave Davidson

As time

ticks past life,

the life we know of-

we learn to adore

more about love.

 

Dave Davidson

Advanced romance

is a luxury you can afford

if willing to take the chance

of rarely being bored.

 

Dave Davidson

 

 

 

Think of my loyal love,

my last adieu;

Absence and love are naught

if we are true.

 

Alfred De Musset

A heart apologetic

realizes it's mistakes

and faces ultimate responsibility.

It's a journey of humbleness

mixed with regret

and seasoned

with sorrow.

 

Dave Davidson

Revealing your appreciation,

in spoken or written word,

leaks proof and evidence to the world that the love you are receiving is making a connection.

 

Dave Davidson

 

 

Does your love still breathe

the wind near the shore.

 

Does it share a rare

breeze as it did before.

 

Dave Davidson

 

 

There’s peace

in understanding

a rain cooling fearful fires.

 

There’s peace

in understanding

reconnecting frayed wires.

 

Dave Davidson

Sure, romance involves

a gentlemen opening a door,

but if the door revolves

see if trudging together solves

a nudging for more.

 

Dave Davidson

Never never ever

take love for granted.

And never never fake love,

but receive it enchanted.

 

Dave Davidson

 

If you feel in love

and that a heart could burst

from thoughts it’s thinking of,

nothing couldn’t be worse.

 

Dave Davidson

 

Nurture love while you can,water down regret, plant passion and share the delight of sunshine regardless of the weather man.

Dave Davidson

 

 

There will be a time for these tears

to cease their flow, for these fears

to flow into joy. We shall be released

form our isolated island states, from

these stone weights on our wings.

 

Matt Malyon

Flirting is like calling in to a radio station

with a request then waiting in anticipation

for your favorite song to make the airwaves.

 

Flirting is an application

for affection without

the paperwork.

 

Dave Davidson

 

The tenderness,

the wonderful warmth, the undeniable power

of being in love helps melt

away troubles, worries, and

baggage from years past.

 

Becca Lynn

Most of us go through life

not knowing what we want,

but feeling darn sure

this isn’t it.

 

Anonymous

 

Caring is the distinct

concern of staying well.

 

Sharing is the instinct

learned by show and tell.

 

Dave Davidson

 

The circus is in town.

The clown in the center ring looks

like my mirror. What am I to do?

Caught between the dreamer

and the fool.

 

Matt Malyon

Celebrate

the life you have

while wishing

for what’s next.

 

Dave Davidson

Maybe

this is stupid,

maybe this is wise,

maybe this is cupid,

where his arrow lies.

 

Dave Davidson

 

Advanced romance

is what a heart deems real

in between a dream

and love’s ideal.

 

Dave Davidson

 

Where’s your heart

when love’s so near,

when sand shifts into glass,

when love asks crystal clear

how long fears will last.

 

Dave Davidson

Advanced romance

is a course of confirmation,

a ready resource of inspiration

and a force of exhilaration

endorsed by relaxation.

 

Dave Davidson

Where’s your heart

when love’s far away,

when the shore leaves no tide,

when there’s no dock on the bay

or tears left to cry inside.

 

Dave Davidson

 

It may be a child’s smile,

it might be a model’s style

it may be a nature scene,

rolling hills, grass that’s green.

It may be a screen kiss,

a Christmas wish, a promise.

Beauty is a mysterious thing;

opens my eyes, makes me sing.

 

Dave Davidson

 

At a glance,

advanced romance

has a consequence

that makes a lot of sense

if you take a chance.

 

Dave Davidson

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

To scheme,

study and strategize

just to pull off a surprise,

is the funnest kind of dream

one can organize.

 

Dave Davidson

 

 

I leave the door open

for the phone to ring...

Now that you’re gone

I see you everywhere.

 

Matt Malyon

 

 

Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer.

 

Romans 12:12

 

 

The true beloveds of this world are in their lover's eyes lilacs opening, ship lights, school bells, a landscape, remembered conversations, friends, a child's Sunday, lost voices, one's favorite suit, autumn and all seasons, memory, yes, it being the earth and water of existence, memory.
Truman Capote, Other Voices, Other Rooms, 1948.